Butch and femme are not codependent identities; they don’t need each other to exist. That doesn’t change the fact that, every time I write about butch identity, it gives me new ways to perceive and evaluate my own femme self.
That’s why I participate in the Butch Lab Symposium.
Please, try to read all of the entries. Take the time to comment. We don’t have a community unless we have a conversation.
Butch Lab Symposium #2: Stereotypes, Cliches, and Misconceptions on Butch Lab:
- Madeline Elayne: Butches Don’t Wear Pink (and other fallacies)
- Victoria Oldham at Musings of a Lesbian Writer: Misconceptions
- Wendi Kali at A Stranger in This Place: Butch Stereotypes, Cliches, and Misconceptions
- RM at Letters from Titan: Butch Isn’t Ugly
- Kyle on Butchtastic: Butch Stereotypes, Cliches and Misconceptions:
- EST at A Lesbian Christian on Butch Stereotypes
- Jolie at This Side of Changed on Butch Stereotypes
- Laina at The Bookish Butch
- Harrison at How to Be Butch on Stereotypes, Cliches, and Misconceptions
- Lenore Louhi at her self-titled blog from a piece titled “Smoke”
- Cody on Cowboy Coquet on Stereotypes, Cliches, and Misconceptions

